Dear Crabby, I always want to jump in and help others, but it doesn't always seem to work out. How do you decide whether or not it is worth helping others out? Sincerely, Sally Samaritan Dear Mrs. Samaritan, I learned a long time ago that you should really qualify the situation before you get involved. My father taught me when I was very young to make sure someone is asking for your help before you try to help them out. There is no better example of this then when I tried to help a local … [Read more...]