Dear Crabby, Why are men blunt about people's weight? Women are usually kind and consider other peoples feelings, but men do not care. How can we teach these men some manners! Sincerely Polite Patty Dear Polite Patty, I know this dynamic all too well. I remember when I put in an extra ten pounds or so and ran into an old friend from high school once. The first thing out of his mouth was, "Boy you're getting fat!" I asked if he was serious and he said yes. I thanked him and started … [Read more...]